Get a Bigger Guidance Payoff

I tend towards worry. It’s a low-level of anxiety about, well, almost everything, and probably why getting guidance is so important to me. This constant background of emotional noise works a lot like my tinnitus, that high-pitched ringing in my ears from standing too close to giant speakers in rock concerts. (Music must be felt, right?) Worry […]

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Do You Make This Guidance Mistake?

Our house is going up for sale.  We don’t want to buy it, either.  Scrambling for guidance. Gotta move again.  Noooo… Moving every couple of years is getting old. Hell, I’m getting, old and moving is a big physical and emotional drain. The planning, the packing, the unpacking, the expense, gathering housemates. Disruptive, depressing, and […]

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When Guidance Goes Bad

A jumble of painful emotions welled up in me as I hung up the phone. The chance to save my struggling internet startup – and my wallet – was over. The buyers had killed the deal. Hundreds of thousands of dollars and five years of my spare time, down the toilet. I was hurt. Angry at God. “Hey […]

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